When reality dawns on you

You're in your final year in college .
It all seems like yesterday .
Time is flying so fast , memories of your first year and second year keep flashing in your head.
Then the thoughts start to come and go .
What's next , what's the future going to be like , that mini panic starts .
Graduation day comes , now it's the real panic.
You have to start making decisions ; the most crucial ones
What do you do
Do you get a masters degree and go further from there?
Do you get married and bring that perfect picture in your head into realization?
Do you start a business as an enterpreneur and aim for space?
Do you just loaf around?
Do you travel the world ?
Which do you choose
Everything that happens is as a result of a previous choice you made ;it's like a cycle which goes on a
All I can say is
Most times that picture in our head isn't how it is in reality .
Actualizing it can be a toughie.
But give your best.
Give your all.
The earlier you start anything , the more attainable it becomes.
Every failure prepares you for something better to come , when you're knocked  down or maybe hit hard ,don't stay down , always try again ! Staying down is accepting defeat from what life has thrown at you .
That dream job might not make you as happy as you expected , you might even not get that dream job to begin with but keep aiming for it.
The marriage might not turn out to be as perfect as you foresaw.
But you are responsible for everything that happens from here onwards even though you've always been but it's more serious now.
You get your shit together and persevere and live with your choice.
Don't whine and make other people miserable around you if you find yourself being miserable
There's is always good in everything ; always appreciate the little things because from the little things comes the big things.
People are often unable to see the good in their life when going through even the most menial phase .
Life isn't a bed of roses.
Every success story had its rocky roads, tornadoes, moments it felt like everything was falling apart.
How it eventually turned out being a success story was the persons attitude at those crucial moments ,the persons choices ; choosing to walk away or choosing to weather the storm.
It's up to you now.
The world is at your fingertips; you choose the life you want because trust me ; the outcome is never just fate or destiny, you have a hand in it all.